Alex Tooke

"Manipulative and deceptive. Alex lied about his porn use for years. He began spending thousands of dollars on online sex workers over a few months after we both lost our jobs. His actions constituted infideli-ty, I know he atleast visited Adult friend finder and problematic/ exploitative platforms too. He gaslit me when I brought any concerns to him because I noticed he had become emotionally cold. He is pos-sessive, didn't want me to leave and put me in vulnerable positions repeatedly. Please note, he is extremely stealthy with his technology to protect his secret life. He doesn't use social media. He uses incognito, deletes burner emails to make accounts, purposefully hides sex worker payments from his bank statements by using certain platforms, etc. I found enough cached data to get an admission through using web analytics. I went to those lengths because I genuinely felt like I was losing my mind, and wanted reassurance I wasn't. Alex seems like he has established boundaries and is meticulous with his home, but it's a mask. The lying extended beyond our relationship and began in childhood. I hope to never relive something like this. Please don't be like me and waste years with him, he is a massive liabili-ty. This type of addiction can result in taboo adult content or offline behavior (I.E. soliciting escorts). He's refused to get the appropriate help and l assume will escalate. It could ruin an unsuspecting person's life."